Thanks for the offer, but it's not the kind of thing anyone can help with. My Ex wife died yesterday morning. My oldest boy, our son, is not dealing well with it. He is a grown man now, but my kids are still my kids at any age. He is strong, and a young man I am proud of, His grandmother on that side died weeks ago, now his mother. As to how to deal with it, I just need to know he will get through it. I personally gave up the grudge years ago, and took my ex a bunch of roses, and my husband in law, a case of beer. The funeral won't interrupt things, as it happens Monday. The weather is calling for snow starting, as I plan to head out.
